Sunday, July 22, 2012

Grab A Beverage - Seriously, There Is A Lot To Read


Some of you have said you understand that I have been too busy to write.  Others have said you need to write because we need to know what you have been up to.  Here goes but keep in mind to avoid boring you to sleep I am giving you the abbreviated version.  I have not posted since May 3 – wow, that is two and a half months ago and a lot has happened. 

While at Granville Island the season for Spot Prawns opened.  I thought I would trundle over to Fisherman’s Wharf to partake in the festivities.  Not so lucky me, the festival sold out as soon as they opened.  The line up was miles (or so it seemed) long.  The reward for those who scored a ticket was to taste prawns cooked by renowned chefs of Vancouver.  All was good for I scored prawns the next day and shared them with friends Cecilia and Dave for a scrumptious seafood festival of our own aboard Ta Daa.

As previously written, I was invited to crew aboard Red Heather and sail her home from Maui HI to Victoria BC.  John, the skipper of Red Heather hosted crew for a BBQ at his Squamish home.  To my delight it happened to be when I was on Granville Island.  Crew members, Ian and Gary, offered to drive me to Squamish.  It was a great social get-together to meet the crew.  The biggest tip I took away from the Pacific crossing was to dress in layers, layers, layers.  I intend to take that advice seriously.

Crossing the Salish Sea (formerly known as the Strait of Georgia) can be very entertaining.  One would think that you have all the room in the world to sail and maneuver.  Not so!  In one crossing of the Strait I encountered cargo ships, freighters, tugs with tow, BC Ferries, Seaspan Barge Ferry, trees, Styrofoam blocks, porpoise, seals, power boats of all sizes and other sail boats.  While on the water there is a saying “Might has right” meaning that anything bigger than you has the right of way.  There are also rules to follow in the shipping lanes.  For the cargo ships and freighters I had to alter course or just plain slow down and wait for the big guys to move along.

One of my biggest fears on the water is snagging a crab or prawn trap line.  If this happens more than likely the line will tangle in the prop and perhaps the prop shaft.  To rectify the problem someone would have to dive to the line and cut it free from Ta Daa.  My next stop, after Granville Island, was Ganges.  Leaving Ganges is like navigating a minefield.  There are prawn and crab buoys everywhere in Ganges Harbour.  I had finished my usual routine of getting underway and was now scanning the waters ahead of me.  To starboard I saw a crabber busy picking and pulling his traps.  To port I had just motored past some more buoys when they instantly disappeared underwater.  Immediately I throttled back and put the boat in neutral.  My heart sank and I felt sick in the pit of my stomach.  Silence as Ta Daa glided gently in the water.  I heard no thumps and bumps.  I felt no tugging on the bottom side.  I scanned three hundred and sixty degrees.  I, wiping the sweat from my brow, soon realized the buoys disappeared as a result of the crabber retrieving his ‘string’ of traps.  With confidence I put Ta Daa in gear and extremely relieved continued on my way.  Shortly after I had full sails out making my way to Tsehum Harbour where I would stay the night. 

In May each year Brentwood Bay Power and Sail Squadron hosts a cruise.  This year is was May 12 and 13.  We depart Tsehum Harbour (Sidney BC) and arrive at Victoria’s Inner Harbour then return. The cruise has been renamed, in honour of my husband, to the Ron Harris Memorial Cruise.  This year we had twelve boats, thirty-five people and seven dogs.  Guests aboard Ta Daa included friends Janis and Ken with furry friend Coach.  A good time was had by all!

May 18 (May long weekend) I departed WestBay Marine Village for Bedwell Harbour and more specifically Poet’s Cove.  It is the annual long weekend Bluewater Cruising Association rendezvous.  Sonia joined me for the weekend with her husband and daughter meeting up with us at Bedwell.  We managed to sail for a good portion of the way.  At Turn Point freighter activity picked up considerably.  Sails in!  Also on this day Sonia and I listened to a Mayday call.  The distress resulted in two gentlemen late 50’s, early 60’s in the water.  They were pulled aboard another boat.  One fellow lived and the other did not.  I can only urge all boaters to always wear a lifejacket or certified buoyancy device of some kind.  When on the water you have to expect the unexpected.  It was surreal listening to the distress and the steps taken to save the two men.  We were helpless and so near yet so far. 

On a happy note we had and entertaining, social and educational weekend not to mention great company and scrumptious food. 

Not all fun is aboard Ta Daa.  It seems some of my friends are catching up to me in age.  They are becoming age 50 and up – thank goodness.  My friend Leanne turned 50 so we girl friends kidnapped her to Whistler.  We had an amazing time riding the Peak-to-Peak chair, ziplining the canyon between Whistler and Blackcomb, eating great food and basically letting Whistler know we were in town.  Nope, not me.  I am not telling any stories - what happens in Whistler stays in Whistler, wink wink.  Suffice it to say we all came home exhausted and thrilled with a great birthday celebration weekend for Leanne.  

The next five weeks were even more amazing.  It all started with daughter Meghan joining me on June 7 aboard Ta Daa.  We set out together heading for Telegraph Harbour Marina on Thetis Island for the annual Hunter Rendezvous.  A highlight of this weekend is the blind dinghy race and a spit BBQ pig.  Marry the previous items with good friends and informative lectures and you have a perfect mix for a perfect rendezvous.  Sadly, I put Meghan on the ferry to Vancouver Island.  I was missing her as soon as I set out for Montegue Harbour.  There I met up with friends for more socializing and a couple nights of relaxation.  Winston and I walked the beaches and trails and read a lot.  Next stop Friday Harbour, WA.

Washington State sells a Marine Park Pass, which I purchased early in the year and before knowing about my trans Pac adventure.  I was determined to use it as much as possible in the couple weeks that I could devote to the Puget Sound.  Since my friend Karen recently sold her boat I invited her to join me for some time aboard Ta Daa.  She met me in Friday Harbour on the afternoon June 12. 

I am told that there is no such thing as coincidences. Keep that in mind as you read.  Karen sold her boat, Andiamo, to a friend of the fella they purchased Andiamo from.  Karen and her late husband, Jean-Luc, purchased Andiamo on Bainbridge Island.  She sold Andiamo to a fella on Bainbridge Island.  Scott is a gentle soul and understood the circumstances that brought Karen to sell her boat.  He also had Andiamo’s hull repainted and the rigging replaced.  He also renamed her to Kindred. 

On June 12, in the evening, Karen received an email from Scott telling her that Kindred had been re-launched and he had a set of Jean-Luc’s initials to put on the stern of the boat – so he could be with her as long as Scott owned her.  And, he was only going to be home the coming weekend and….  he asked Karen if she could make it to Bainbridge Island to personally put Jean-Luc’s initials on the stern of Kindred.  There was no doubt in my mind we could make it and I would get here there aboard Ta Daa.  The next day we set out.  We had a good sail across the Juan de Fuca and into Admiralty Inlet until the wind died.  Eleven and a half hours and seventy nautical miles later we arrived at Winslow Marina.  It was a personal journey for Karen and I could certainly feel the emotion and feel the presence of Jean-Luc while being embraced by their Bainbridge Island friends. 

While on Bainbridge, incredible rust-coloured algae grew in the marina and according to locals it was unseasonably early.  To us it clearly looked like an industrial mishap but not so.  Also abundant in Eagle Harbour was the bioluminescence.  At dusk the water glittered and this was a result of the jellyfish feeding on the algae, which in turn activated the bioluminescence.  This brought out the kid in us.  We grabbed, from the dock, whatever we could find to stir the water.  Wherever we touched the water it lit up in its blue-white brilliance.  Touching the water was not enough.  We splashed, we wrote with sticks, flicked rope, and splashed some more with paddles.  We were so excited we knocked on the boat of new friends on Red Thread.  They came out and totally thrilled started to play as well.  That was not enough.  I hopped in the dinghy to see what happened when the outboard engine stirred the water.  It was heavenly to see the water come to life.

New friends were made and old friends were re-acquainted however, all good things must come to an end.  Our next stop was Edmonds for fuel.  Karen and I got caught up in browsing the stores and the time flew by.  It was clear to us both that we had been swept up in the emotion of Bainbridge and the reason we were there.  It was time to move on and Edmonds was the break that we both welcomed.  Edmonds is a beautiful and clean gem of a marina not to mention the quaintness of the town itself.

From Edmonds we headed up Saratoga Passage to Cornet Bay at Deception Pass.  For those of you who do not know, Deception Pass is one of those places where you need to plan your transit of this pass at slack water.  The current in this pass can run in excess of 7.5 knots.  We planned to stay at Cornet Bay a couple of nights to explore some of the Deception Pass Park trails.  As the saying goes, “Expect the unexpected.”  We had an uneventful trip up Saratoga Passage until we neared Hope Island.  Panpan, panpan, panpan was the announcement on the radio.  Mariners know that is serious and that a boat or person is in distress.  In this case it was a 27’ Bayliner in trouble.  As a mariner it is your duty to respond to a call if you are not going to put yourself, your crew or your boat in danger. 

I did not respond to the distress call until we scanned the area and had a visual o n the Bayliner.  We were the only boat in the area and his only chance of help before the US Coast Guard was tasked.  Que Pasa was the name of this boat.  The gentlemen aboard were not well equipped nor experienced.  We managed to tow them into Cornet Bay and docked them only to realize they were taking on serious water.  They managed to get the help they needed such as pumps to keep the boat from sinking before it could be hauled out of the water.  We later found out he hit a log and damaged the transom of his boat. 

On the morning of June 20 we attempted to leave Cornet Bay and transit Deception Pass but gave up due to fog encroaching our cruising grounds.  As we positioned ourselves to transit a sailboat emerged from the opposite direction and informed us it was not burning off, you couldn’t see fifty feet in front of you and it went on for miles.  We aborted our plans and headed back into Cornet Bay to weigh our options.  As the universe would have it, the fog burned off in the late afternoon and we transited the famous and infamous Deception Pass during the early evening slack. 

Flounder Bay on Fidalgo Island was the next stop.  Here we cleaned Ta Daa and spent time in Anacortes while it poured rain.  The next day it was fog again but luckily it was burning off by ten o’clock.  Off we headed for Spencer Spit on Lopez Island.  We had to cross Rosario Strait.  It was very busy with commercial and pleasure traffic which meant cargo ships, tugs with tow and power boats everywhere and going in every direction.  Once across Rosario we entered Thatcher Pass.  I looked ahead and could not believe my eyes.  Whales, whales, whales, orcas to be exact.  They were heading straight for us.  I throttled back.  We were in awe, we were fascinated, we were speechless, and shocked.  Neither of us expected it.  Karen took the wheel while I ran down for the camera.  I was not prepared for this.  I snapped what I could but mostly I enjoyed the moment.  They were so close we could almost reach out and touch them.  This was an experience to be savored.  I am sure one of them winked at me.  Amongst all of this excitement a vivid yet transparent vision of Ron emerged and overlay one of the adult orcas as it rode the surface before diving below Ta Daa.  It is a memory that brings tears to my eyes as I type. 
 
Both Karen and I were at a loss for words.  We could not believe what each of us, in our own moment, just experienced.  We quietly and slowly continued on our way.  When we snapped out of our dreamlike state we headed for Spencer Spit, hooked a mooring buoy and enjoyed a lunch of cheese and crackers complimented by a bottle of champagne, which seemed fitting for our close encounter with the orcas.

We realized time was limited so plans were made to head to Prevost Harbour on Stuart Island.  There we tied to the mooring line.  We did two hikes, one short and a longer one the next day.  The longer walk took us to Turn Point, a picturesque light station more often viewed from the waters of Haro Strait.  Sadly the next day we had to head to Poet’s Cove to check into Canadian Customs then make our way to Sidney for Karen to return home and for me to make my way to the Comox Valley. 
 
For the past couple of years I have had a source of water making its way into the bilge.  A part of deciphering the problem is to taste the water; is it fresh or is it salty? Fresh it was.  The problem was a leaky starboard window and a leaky hot water heater.  In May these two issues were rectified.  The water in the bilge was not.  It was time for me to investigate again.  First the taste test.  This time is was undoubtedly salty.  What the hell?  This means a new problem.  On the way to Comox I overnighted at Mom and Bud’s on Salt Spring Island.  In conversation with two old salty dogs I remembered that the stuffing box on Ta Daa is not a dripless stuffing box… that means it should ‘drip’ salt water.  I told myself that I would look into it when I arrived at Comox.  The next day, enroute to Schooner Cove, it was driving me up the wall.  When I got docked I immediately pulled the boat apart to reveal the prop shaft and stuffing box.  It was not dripping.  It was a steady dribble.  AHA!  I know the problem, now I have to fix it.  Thanks to friends Ron and Monica I was able to get a ride to Nanaimo to purchase the appropriate size pipe wrenches.  Then with Ron’s tutelage the stuffing box was adjusted to stop the dribbling but seep enough to keep the shaft cool while under way.  Another lesson learned and another challenge has been overcome.  Thank you, Ron and Monica!
 
Off to Comox I go!  On the way I checked the stuffing box no less than four times and it was adjusted perfectly – no dribbling and just enough moisture to keep the shaft cool.  I can relax now and enjoy a dry bilge.  Some would say I was obsessed with finding the problem and with keeping the bilge dry.  I am a happy camper now and this will help in the winter with the moisture on board Ta Daa. 

Comox is always wonderful.  I get to invite everyone to my home for a change.  Only difference is they do not have to drive to Victoria to enjoy my hospitality.  In the days at Comox I managed to cook for the kids, have a birthday party for Amelia, have a girl friend night on board Ta Daa, have a sleepover with Stewart and my youngest grand-daughters, have oldest grand-daughter Rayna and more family members for lunch, for daughter and son-in-laws new house I got to pick colours, bricks and stained shingles, had breakfast with my dad and I managed to go out for dinner a couple of times.  I barely had a spare moment and I loved every minute of it. Whew, I was pooped. 
Sadly but expected, my little furry fella, Winston was diagnosed with congestive heart disease.  I had plenty of opportunity to observe him and take note of his behavior.  With the help of the Internet I was able to research before taking him to the vet.  As Winston is terrified of the vet, she was kind enough to examine him outside on the lawn of the vet clinic.  He is now on diuretics.  A good portion of his day is sleeping and he lets me know how much exercise is enough. 

Unfortunately it was time to leave and head south for home.  One last event to attend on July 13th and 14th was the Pig War at Port Browning Marina, Pender Island.

This event has been an annual event for 26 years between Brentwood Bay Power Squadron and Friday Harbour Power Squadron.  It essentially keeps the war over the pig alive and well.  If you would like to know more about this historic event Google Pig War San Juan Island. With great attendance we enjoyed a spit BBQ pig with all the trimmings, games, and great company.  I am happy to announce that Brentwood Bay won the Pig Trophy two years in a row.  The pressure is on for Friday Harbour to bring it home next year.  The pressure is on for Brentwood Bay to be the first to win the trophy three years in a row.  2013 will be a year to remember!

Sadly yet happily it was time to leave Port Browning for home at West Bay Marine Village.  Kathy, a squadron friend joined me for the trip home.  Weather wise it was dreary and drizzly.  I was thankful to have Kathy’s company.  Surprisingly, we were distracted from the weather by the amount of mayday and panpan calls on the radio.  There were at least six emergencies that the Coast Guard radio personnel had to deal with.  They ranged from small craft, with children aboard, being disabled to an airplane down near Schooner Cove / Nanoose area. 
 
Happily I was home because I must prepare for my trip to Maui and the sail home to Victoria.  Let the preparations begin.  I had to find a local vet for Winston.  On Len and Dawna’s recommendation I went to Feltham Pet Clinic.  I was thrilled with Dr. Kelli.  She now knows Winston and his circumstances.  We were able to discuss strategies in the event Tim and Tara his doggy sitters need to take him in. 
had to renew my car insurance, pay bills into the future, empty the fridge and cupboards of perishables, update this blog, upload cruising pictures, and ensure I have what I need to pack for the trip.  Packing for the trip is difficult, as I will be going from warm climate in Hawaii to cool and likely rainy out in the Pacific to summer on the BC Coast.  I was cautioned to pack lots of gloves and to be prepared to dress in layers yet pack light and compact.  Yikes this is a tough one but here goes.  Stay tuned.  I expect to be home between August 12 and August 19.  You will be sure to get and update on my ocean crossing.  Until then…

Thursday, May 3, 2012

What Are Friends For?


I can tell you!  They phone you up while at Granville Island and encourage you to stay out of the boutiques.  “You do not need anything.  You live on a boat.” 

Friends laugh with you, cry with you, support and encourage you.  Friends also let you be a friend back.  They let you laugh with them, cry with them, support and encourage them. 

Friends are friends when you haven’t spoken in a while and pick up where you both left off - as if there was never a time lapse. 

Friends are honest, even if it is not what you want to hear.  Friends are gentle; friends are kind. 

Friends can be family and family can be friends.  Sometimes you want your friends to be family.

 I would not be where I am today without my friends. 

It has been just over a month since I retired from the BC Provincial Government.  There has not been one iota of regret or doubt or trepidation.

I already wonder how I had time to work!  I am involved with Brentwood Bay Power and Sail Squadron, Bluewater Cruising Association and WOW (Women on Water).

For Brentwood Bay, I am a Bridge member, meaning I attend meetings monthly as well as prepared and presented a talk on single handing my sailboat, Ta Daa.  BCA and WOW is very exciting.  WOW is a group of five women from BCA who are in the preliminary stages of organizing a WOMEN only one day boating seminar for the Spring of 2013.  And BCA has asked me to be on the Watch for the upcoming year. 

I have been up to the Comox Valley a couple of times to visit family and friends.  This is always so enjoyable and especially when I get time with the grand kids. 

I have half-assed trained for the Times Colonist 10K run,  which I did complete with my daughter on April 29.  We crossed the finish line and that is all that matters.  Thanks, Meg!

The biggest task was to rummage through all the lockers, nooks and crannies on Ta Daa and get rid of what was no longer needed or wanted.  It was also a time to take stock and reorganize.  In doing so, I decided it was a good idea to participate in the Giant Marine Garage Sale (put on by the Victoria Maritime Museum).  The garage sale on April 21 was a huge success.  Of all the items I took, I only came home with two. 

I have learned a bit more about electrical on a boat.  I had to replace a pump, which involved some wiring and I installed a fan in my aft cabin, which also involved wiring. 

Leaving work also meant that I needed to have my dental work up to date.  You guessed it; appointments were necessary to replace old amalgam with acrylic.  Three appointments and the work was completed.  You gotta love dentists these days.  I just laid back, took the injection like a big girl and watched TV for the duration of the work. 

Since January I have been attending courses on Thursday evenings.  I took three:  GPS, Chartplotting and RADAR.  These courses finished mid April. I have to tell you, an exam is an exam.  I still get sweaty palms and a mind full of doubt as to whether I will pass or not. 

Through BCA I attended a night of stargazing at the Observatory.  It was an awesome evening.  If you have not been there it is a must see!

The school I will be attending – Western Academy of Photography – had two photography shows: one for the advanced students and one for the Photography and Written Image (Photojournalism) students.  The work was stunning.  I will aspire to the level of the 2012 graduating class.  If I can do that, then I know I will have something to offer the world!

I have also had time to lunch with work buddies.  It was great to catch up!  I had to add at this point nothing I heard wanted me to change my mind and come back to work – hee hee. 

Since I was planning to leave home port on April 29 after the 10K run Ta Daa and the dinghy needed to be prepared.  Dinghy outboard needed a tune up so I delivered that to the Mercury guys, the dinghy got washed and more air added, Ta Daa got refueled and went for a short run.  All systems go!

The biggest news yet!  When I received this news I felt as though I had won the biggest lottery.  I received a call from the skipper of Red Heather.  Red Heather is a 40’ Olson sailboat.  She is racing in the Victoria to Maui race at end of June.  No, I am not racing but I was asked to be crew on the return trip – Maui to Victoria.  This is a Pacific crossing of approximately 3,500 nautical miles.  Why you ask?  I have always wanted to cross an ocean and I also want to complete this journey in memory and honour of my husband Ron.  It was something that Ron and I thought we would be doing together.  Ron will be with me the whole way.  He will experience this journey through my eyes. 
A quote from my husband, “Take my hand, hold on tight, we are going on another adventure.”  Ronald, my love, I suggest you to hold on tight.  I am taking you on an adventure. 

Our adventure starts on July 25 and would not be possible if it weren’t for my daughter and neighbours who will be caring for Winston while I am away. 

So here I am at Granville Island having some repair work done on Ta Daa:  the hot water tank needed to be replaced, the starboard window needed to be resealed, the anchor light needed to be replaced, we needed to trouble shoot the RADAR and I needed a heat guard built for the hot pipes on the heater.  Today I was having an emotionally challenging day.  The very place I sit is the very place Ron and I purchased our first sailboat, and our second sailboat and our third.  Dreams have turned to reality for us on Granville Island. 

I asked you, what are friends for?  Friends come and temporarily take you away from Granville Island.  They understand, they make you laugh and they share fond memories of Ron.

Thank you to all my friends for your support and encouragement to get me this far.  I love and respect each and every one of you.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

A Crazy Six Weeks



One more sleep, one more day and I begin a new chapter in my life.

I cannot tell you the exact date but it was about a week after the anniversary of Ron’s passing.  I realized that I had spent a year honouring Ron and keeping his spirit alive.  I cannot imagine doing anything different.  While it was a year of pain it was also a year of acknowledgement and growth for me.  All the decisions I have made, looking back, I do not regret a single one. 

Decisions.  Some decisions were very difficult and painful, others were extremely simple and needed little thought.  Retirement, for instance, some would think it would be a drawn out process to come to a final decision.  Not for me, I gave it serious thought for about 24 hours.  I must confess I dabbled with the idea on February 22.  It was on that date I attended a pension seminar.  It was there I met Wolf, a pension counselor.  He kindly gave me his email.  Little did I know that we were a match; me with questions, he with answers.

I also, unconsciously, found myself one evening cruising the net.   For what, I did not know.  Does not matter because it is what I found that matters most.  It was a sight for photojournalism.  Better yet, it was a school and even better, it is in Victoria. 

Next.   If you remember in a previous post I wrote about my sitting in front of the appeal board on February 6.  On February 27 I received an email and telephone call revealing the results.  I had to read the email three times to ensure I was seeing what was actually written.  The telephone call confirmed it.  The appeal board ruled in MY favour.  It was a bittersweet moment.  I was happy yet I cried as I recalled the reason for the event – my grief for Ron. 

On February 28 I seriously thought about retirement.  Yes, there would be a difference between my pay cheque and my retirement cheque.  It was a difference I felt that I could live with and more than likely could make up doing something else.  Recall the photojournalism school.  It was meant to be.  The ideas were flowing and the decisions clicking.  On February 29 I handed in my resignation from the Province of British Columbia; it feels so good, it feels so right.

Somewhere in here I fit in a trip to Whistler to visit my good friend Cecilia.  We had the time of our lives; skate skiing, a day at the spa, and a biathalon.  Yes, you read right.  Cecilia signed us up for a beginner biathalon.  It was something I had always wanted to do.  Skating and shooting – something I need more practice at but if I lived in Whistler I could get hooked.  Practice round of shooting 0/5.  First race round 3/5 which garnered me two penalty ski loops.  Second race round I managed to hit 5/5 targets and no penalty loops.  My skate skiing sucked but I had a blast!

Needing to know more and true to my character, I researched the school, visited the premises, and interviewed one of the instructors.  The Western Academy of Photography is for me.  Next task - upgrade camera equipment – stay with Pentax or switch to Canon or Nikon.  My head swirled in technical data from the hours of research.  A decision was reached.  I am now a Nikon girl and am undergoing a steep learning curve with my D7000 but loving every moment. 

I have been winding down at work, sorting files, deleting superfluous emails and updating schedules.  I will miss my workmates and the support they offered each and every day. 
I will spend the summer cruising and getting to know my Nikon.  School starts in September.  It is a ten-month course.  I will have to face my fears, acknowledge how little I know, and rise to my expectations. 

One more sleep, one more day and I begin my new chapter.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Remembering Ron On February 13th.


I cannot believe it has been a year since my Ron, my beloved husband left us for his new life.

I can believe, during this past year, he has been with me the whole time.   

What do you do on the anniversary of the death of a loved one?  I had to ask myself that question several times.  Each time, nothing appropriate came to mind.  It is not an occasion for celebration.  I also felt that I would require some time alone.  As the great universe would have it, I was sick.  Was it a coincidence?  Not sure.  What I do know is that I needed to drag my sorry butt out of bed and get some fresh air.  Thank goodness for Tylenol.  I got dressed and headed to Sooke.  In Sooke I purchased fresh and beautiful red tulips with rich black centres.  Winston and I were now on our way to Botanical Beach.  The road to Port Renfrew was just what I needed – deserted.  I encountered few.  The beach was the same – perfect.  The sun shone, the waves were crashing and the tide was barely out, but out far enough for me to write in the sand.  When we travelled we did this often.  I then took the flowers and threw them into a raging tidal pool.  They were instantly swept away, just as I wanted.  Winston and I then basked in the sun and allowed ourselves to get lost in the roar and pounding of the waves.  We were one with Ron.  It was a time for sweet and loving memories.  It was a time to just be;  Ron, Winston and me.

I want to thank all of you who texted, emailed and telephoned to let me know that you too, in your own way, were remembering Ron on February 13.


The following song is from one of Ron's favourite artists.  Click the link to listen.

February So Far


February has so far been a rough couple of weeks.  Without going into details, I have had to face an appeal board of three doctors.  The days leading up to February 6 were agonizing.  To prepare for the appeal I was forced to re-live my journey with Ron and his cancer.   Further, I was also pushed to face my weaknesses during my journey through my grieving process.  The doctors asked questions for three full hours.  Needless to say I was emotionally, mentally and physically exhausted.  I retreated to my Volvo.

There I gathered myself before heading out.  As I drove down the lane – flanked by parking on both sides – some lady backed out and hit my shiny Volvo – smack in the middle of the front bumper.  I could not believe it.  I just could not believe it.  Out I climbed.  She said to me, “Where did you come from?”  Then she said, “I think this accident is 50/50.”  I said, “I don’t think so.”  We exchanged names, contact info and I noted her license plate number.  I am happy to say she did contact me and we are sorting through the repairs.

I got word from my marina that I could move Ta Daa home to Westbay on Feb 10.  That was good news for me and Winston.  I had to wait for a rising tide and was home by 1 PM.  It took some time to securely and properly tie up.  Next, Winston and I walked back to Victoria to get the Volvo.  On the way I started to feel unwell.  Hmmm this gurgling tummy is unusual but I was sure it was just a gas bubble working its way through.  I thought wrong.  I no sooner had returned to the boat and I was violently ill.  This went on far too long.  I could barely get out of bed the next day to walk my little fur baby.  Sunday was a bit better but I found it difficult to even drink water.  Thank goodness it passed and its wake left me with headaches for a couple of days.  

The Rest Of January...


Was uneventful, that is, until January 22.  I had gone up island on my flex Friday and chose to stay only one night.  Winston and I trundled home on Saturday, arriving about seven.   I warmed the boat, hunkered down with a nip of scotch and lavished in the thought that I could sleep in the next day.  It seemed like it would be the first sleep in for weeks.  I was due.  

As a live aboard, your hearing becomes more acute. Before the sun came up, I could hear the wind starting to blow.  Soon after I could hear and feel the effects.  The wind was out of the east.  That means for me the wind was blowing from the direction of the inner harbor and hitting me on the port beam.  I was being blown off the dock.  No before you jump to conclusions I was not being blown away but my lines were being stretched to the maximum.  I often checked the space between me and my closest neighbour.  We have no dock finger between us.  There was little room.  I put out fenders in the event we came close enough to touch.

I checked the wind speed at Ogden Point.  As boaters we learn to understand wind speed in knots.  A knot is about 1.8 km/hr.  Before coffee it was time to check what is going on outside.  At 8 AM  it was crazzzzzzy!  Waves were pounding my other neighbour’s boat into the dock with waves crashing over his deck.  As a result our dock finger was taking a beating.  I added extra lines to my boat.  I chatted to another neighbor for a bit then decided it was time to go inside.  Winston and I would not be going for the intended 6 km walk.  As I turned to head to my boat I realized that the line had pulled so tight it broke the 2X4 railing.  Then I noticed that the dock was breaking up from underneath.  The wind peaked at 56.8 knots!  One of my cleats that I was tied to was twisting sideways.  It was as if all HELL was breaking loose.  What could go wrong was going wrong!

This brought new and unfamiliar fears.  I was worried that the loose boards would find their way into the hull of my boat.   I was compelled to report the current happenings to the owner.  He came down for a first hand look.  With a little help from my friends, we did some fancy lashing to secure my dock finger to the main dock.  We also secured my boat to the main dock and to the piling.  The fear was that my boat finger would further break up in the storm.  I stayed aboard for the afternoon and early evening.  For safety reasons, Winston and I stayed overnight at our neighbour’s float home.  The next day it was decided that I would move Ta Daa to the inner harbor while my dock finger was rebuilt and reinforced with angle iron.  While it was a treat to be in the harbor, three weeks was a long time away from my home port.